Confidence

Its something i dont understand..

We only feel confident if someone tells us how good we look or shows a bit of interest..and when no one shows us any attention we wonder whats wrong with us and why no one wants us..

We lose all confidence in situations where we're interested in someone yet that person is interested in someone else especially a friend..

It makes no sense that self confidence feels like it comes from other people..yet when we get to 40 we look back and go i looked so much better than why did i worry so much about what other people think?

I'd like to let go and stop worrying..