Monday, December 15, 2008

Love

How do you know your in it? How do you know you have the real thing..the thing everyone talks about..the thing that makes a good movie..a good novel..a good song lyric..the thing that questionably makes the world go round..

What would Titanic have been without Jack and Rose? BORING..what would Grease have been without Sandy and Danny? Why can't love be like in the movies..where the couple meets..runs into a bit of drama..breaks up..someone apologies and then there's a kiss and then a happy ending..

Once your in it..what do u do for love? Do you sacrifice things? Where do you draw the line with compromises? Do you risk everything for love? Is putting a career or degree on hold something you do for this great thing.."If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with..."-Unknown. Is that really true? Everything happens for a reason? If u didnt let it go then there's a chance u'd still be together and if u dont and it doesnt come back then your going to wonder what if for a long time..your dammed if u do and dammed if you dont..

Do we have soul mates or great loves..or both? Look at people who fall madly in love..get married..have babies and then get divorced? Was it a great love that faded? Is love really not enough?

What if you take a risk and it backfires? Is it worth taking the risk?

"Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."-St. Augustine

So yes..i know im young and possibly going to fall in love in my life more than once..and be heartbroken more then once..but in a year from now..this could be a scary decision making time for me..and i probably wont have my mind made up as i changed my mind today..again..

But the feeling i have right now..i dont want it to end..ever..could this decision just be the bit of drama in my love story? Maybe i can look forward to the romantic gesture..go weak at the knees? Or..not..

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